My grandma's kicked me out, but i have nowhere else to go. None of my friends have room, the rest of my family won't take me in. What the **** do i do? I am - this close - to ending it. I can't see myself surviving without a place?|||Life is tough for all of us. Things seem like they couldn't get any worse. I believe that these things come to make us stronger. I believe that God has a reason for everything. There are things about my life that I have questioned. There are shelters and state facilities that you can go to for help. I wish you all the best.|||If you want to survive this the first thing you need to do is quit blaming your problems on life. Obviously you have somehow burned your bridges. This isn't something life does it is something you did.
Next thing you need to do is stand on your own two feet and quit trying to make people feel sorry for you when it is your own fault you are where you are.
Stand on your own two feet even if it means going to a homeless shelter. Then get a job and start taking care of yourself and quit expecting others to take care of you.
However, it has just dawned on me that I don't know how old you are. If you are over 18 then I stand by all I just said. If you are younger than that then seek help through a runaway hotline. They will help you.|||It's your trials %26amp; tribulations, God is testing you to see if you can keep the faith.
If you aren't too old see about joining job corp in your area they usually provide housing %26amp; job training, heres the website link.http://jobcorps.dol.gov/
Also go to the local YMCA or shelter or a church. Here is link to help you find your local YMCA.http://www.ymca.net/
GOOD LUCK!
P.S. Where are your parents? Whoever has custody of you be it your grandma or whoever they have to support you until you are 18 %26amp; in some states 19. If whoever that is won't support you report them to the department of human resources in your area they will find you some place to live.|||PLEASE... go talk to someone...there are answers and there are people who care! Don't ask someone who isnt a professional. This is a serious matter. Try a help line... in my experience they can lead u on a right path. Sweety everyone goes through these horriable times....u cant have ups without some downs...even if they are really crappy|||Its going to be okay there are places you can go, because believe it or not this sort of thing does happen a lot.
There are always two sides to life. Life can lift you up into the air and shove you down. You can't have one without the other, so remember when you're struggling there is a better part of life to experience, you just have to hang on for the time being.
Do you know of any shelters in your area? You can probably stay there until you can get something more permanent. The sort of people who can direct you in the right direction are the police, school cousellors, university cousellers, helplines. These things are set up to help people out.|||Sweet Zen,
Hey tough going huh? u must b somewhere to b online.
I hope it is with a friend. U have the world. It is yours.
b all u can b. Get a job doing anything- labor, farm hand, landscaping. Join the armed forces! work = $ = food/shelter. You must have getting into trouble and not in school or working and family gets tired of supporting if u don't contribute. Best wishes.|||Life is always taking a swing at everyone at some point in our lives. My question is why everyone in your life seems to be unhappy with you. Have you maybe caused some problems for everyone around you and yourself? Are you
leading a productive life? Are you working or in school? iF
Not this can be a problem. Try conviencing your family that
you are willing to make changes and that you need them.
If no one will help you. The homless shelters in your area will take you in. If you are very very depressed and feel it would be easier to no longer be here, please please please
talk to someone right away. Go to the emergency room. They
cannot charge you if you have no money. They can help you
geta social worker to talk with you and the doctor will access
your condition. There is help all over with churches and shelters. Look in your phone book and see what is available to you.Life is tough right now but believe me your life can change sop you can have everything you want if you are
willing to make important changes within. This will take time
but you can do it!! it does not matter how many times you fall down in life.It is how many times you can get back up and
keep fighting. This will make you a much stronger person.
Don't ever give up! You can be happy! Take sometime alone
and think about what you would like to see change in your life.
And ask God for answers. He is one neat guy who will never
kick you out. With him by yourside you will be able to conquer
anything without fear! Remember to keep your faith!|||Go to the cops babe your a minor and your parents need to look out for you and protect you or your gaurdains. They'e are places that will house you and help you get back on your feet if things get ot tough for you. if you need to talk to can contact me|||Go to family /youth services...through community services in your area. Get a counsellor and they will help you figure it out.
All is not lost.|||Here is some advice. Whatever it is you are feeling is a perfect reflection of what is in the process of becoming. Stop having a pity party and do something!|||first of all find a shelter and talk to a counselor. and keep in mind that every thing in this life happens for a reason. and it happens to all of us, not just you. what happens from here on out is up to you. will you make the best of a bad situation or lay down and take a beating. get up and fight back . the way to do that is to get trained in a field where you can make something of your life. then, when you are successful,you can pass your good luck on to some other 16 year old that's down on his luck, at your age you don't realize that life is a struggle. getting older you will realize that you probably dealt with every downfall in your life like it was the end of the world. it's not. be of strong mind. don't let the little things get to you, then when something big happens, you will be more mentally capable of handling the situation. keep calm. set yourself some goals and strive for them. if you fail,don't be too hard on yourself. just get back up and fight for it again. if everything in life comes easy to us, then we all end up a bunch of weeny babies.
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